Archive for November, 2008

Thought For The Day: Blessed

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 16 Nov, 2008

Sunday, November 16, 2008
Inspiration:  “I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street, I met a man who had no feet.” ~Ancient Persian Saying
Be: (positive confession) I Am Blessed.    
 
Do: (first steps) Today, look at all that you do have and the potential that is in you and available to you [...]

Sunday, November 16, 2008
Inspiration:  “I had the blues because I had no shoes until upon the street, I met a man who had no feet.” ~Ancient Persian Saying

Be: (positive confession) I Am Blessed.    

 
Do: (first steps) Today, look at all that you do have and the potential that is in you and available to you as a citizen of this great country to have even more.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I realize just how blessed I actually am, I will really possess the things I already ownand open up the way to receive even more.

Be, Do, and Have a Great Day!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Serendipitous

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 15 Nov, 2008

Saturday, November 15, 2008
Inspiration: “Serendipity. Look for something, find something else, and realize that what you’ve found is more suited to your needs than what you thought you were looking for.” Lawrence Block, Award Winning Mystery Writer
Be: (positive confession) I Am Serendipitous.    
Do: (first steps) Today, instead of trying to change something about someone else (a [...]

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Inspiration: “Serendipity. Look for something, find something else, and realize that what you’ve found is more suited to your needs than what you thought you were looking for.” Lawrence Block, Award Winning Mystery Writer

Be: (positive confession) I Am Serendipitous.    
Do: (first steps) Today, instead of trying to change something about someone else (a friend or loved one) turn your focus on yourself and determine what it is that God wants you to change about you.  After all you really have no control over the actions of another anyway; so avoid the frustration that approach is guaranteed to cause.  Instead look at the habits you perceive as annoying as a way to develop a specific aspect of your character and a means to helping you improve your ability to lead people, beginning with self.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I challenge myself to adapt to the sandpaper-like influences in my life I will find that I make a series of unexpectedly desirable discoveries.

Be, Do, and Have a the best day of your life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Courageous

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 14 Nov, 2008

Friday, November 14, 2008
Inspiration:  “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.”      Ambrose Redmoon
Be: (positive confession) I Am Courageous.  I am willing to take the risks that can make a better life for me and those around me.
Do: (first steps) Today, write down the [...]

Friday, November 14, 2008

Inspiration:  “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear.”      Ambrose Redmoon

Be: (positive confession) I Am Courageous.  I am willing to take the risks that can make a better life for me and those around me.

Do: (first steps) Today, write down the 3 things you fear the most, how overcoming those fears will help to improve your life and make you as successful as you should be, and what you plan to do to face and overcome those fears.  (ex. Public speaking, more confidence during presentations and more sales, speak to a small group of people about a topic I feel good about.)

Have: (making dreams reality) As I confront my fears head on they lose their grip on me and this frees me to have more of the things I desire.

Be, Do, and Have the best day of your life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Relentless

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 13 Nov, 2008

Thursday, November 13, 2008
Inspiration:  “Desire is the key to motivation, but its determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek.”  Mario Andretti, Champion Race Car Driver
Be: (positive confession) I Am Relentless.
   
Do: (first steps) Today, doggedly pursue your [...]

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Inspiration:  “Desire is the key to motivation, but its determination and commitment to an unrelenting pursuit of your goal - a commitment to excellence - that will enable you to attain the success you seek.”  Mario Andretti, Champion Race Car Driver

Be: (positive confession) I Am Relentless.
   
Do: (first steps) Today, doggedly pursue your dreams and realize they will not be dropped into your lap.  Relentlessly encourage yourself verbally and thereby correct any self-image problems.  When you get knocked down, get up again and again, like a hungry prize-fighter.  Figure out what went wrong (look at the numbers, the key figures that relate to your goal) and go back to the battle better equipped having learned from your past failures.  Each time you do you will steal a little more of your adversary’s thunder and prove you belong in the ring.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I remain persistent I will overcome the internal and external resistance I face and rise to the level of performance and achievement I wish to obtain.

Be, Do, and Have the Best Day of your Life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Designated Hitter (Part 3)

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 12 Nov, 2008

Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Inspiration:  “When you have an important point to make, don’t try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time - a tremendous whack.”  Winston Churchill
Be: (positive confession) I Am a Designated Hitter (Part 3).
   
Do: [...]

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Inspiration:  “When you have an important point to make, don’t try to be subtle or clever. Use a pile driver. Hit the point once. Then come back and hit it again. Then hit it a third time - a tremendous whack.”  Winston Churchill

Be: (positive confession) I Am a Designated Hitter (Part 3).
   
Do: (first steps) Today, follow a system that will improve the likely-hood of hitting the bulls-eye when it comes to your goals and aspirations. Here are the last two steps of a seven step process. Six, do as the lyrics to Jordin Sparks hit song declare and take it one step at a time.  Big goals are reached by completing specific milestones through well defined and realistic steps.  Lastly, establish consequences for NOT finishing a task on time or in an excellent fashion….you may be able to con a con; but you shouldn’t be able to con yourself.  Find someone or something (I once signed an affidavit and had it notarized) to hold you accountable.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I commit to the process of goal hitting my success will be set in stone.

Be, Do, and Have the Best Day of your Life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Designated Hitter (Part 2)

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 11 Nov, 2008

Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Inspiration:  “Aim for the moon.  If you miss you may hit a star.”  W. Clement Stone, Founder of Combined Insurance Co.
Be: (positive confession) I Am a Designated Hitter (Part 2).
   
Do: (first steps) Today, follow a system that will increase your chances of hitting your target. Here are steps four and five of a [...]

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Inspiration:  “Aim for the moon.  If you miss you may hit a star.”  W. Clement Stone, Founder of Combined Insurance Co.

Be: (positive confession) I Am a Designated Hitter (Part 2).
   
Do: (first steps) Today, follow a system that will increase your chances of hitting your target. Here are steps four and five of a seven step process. Four, choose a goal that you have control over instead of one that requires the influence of a lot of outside forces.  Five, assess the resources available to you and the obstacles (temptations) that stand in your way; then plan and program your schedule, your accountability, and your environment to help maximize your potential for success.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I systematically approach the target I am aiming for I increase my chances of hitting the mark and capturing the prize (better health, stronger portfolio, lower waist size, stronger relationships , etc.).

Be, Do, and Have the Best Day of your Life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Designated Hitter (Part 1)

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 10 Nov, 2008

Monday, November 10, 2008
Inspiration:  “In the long run men hit only what they aim at.  Therefore, though they should fail immediately, they had better aim at something high.”  Henry David Thoreau
Be: (positive confession) I Am Designated Hitter (Part 1).    
Do: (first steps) Today, follow a system that will increase your chances of reaching your goals. [...]

Monday, November 10, 2008

Inspiration:  “In the long run men hit only what they aim at.  Therefore, though they should fail immediately, they had better aim at something high.”  Henry David Thoreau

Be: (positive confession) I Am Designated Hitter (Part 1).    
Do: (first steps) Today, follow a system that will increase your chances of reaching your goals. Here are the first three steps of a seven step process. First, express your goal in terms of specific events or behaviors.  Second, have a way of measuring your success (i.e. dollars earned, specific percentage of fat loss, time, reps, or weight increase for exercise, etc.).  Third, create a sense of urgency by setting a deadline or timeline to reaching part or the whole goal.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I systematically approach the goals I have set for my life I will be more likely to hit the mark and capture the prize (better health, stronger portfolio, lower waist size, etc.).

Be, Do, and Have the Best Day of your Life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Climate Controlled

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 7 Nov, 2008

Friday, November 7, 2008
Inspiration:  “A father’s words are like a thermostat that set the temperature in the house.” Paul Lewis
Be: (positive confession) I Am Climate Controlled.    
Do: (first steps) Today, choose your words and the tone of your voice wisely.  Put yourself in the hearer’s shoes before you speak so that you can properly assess [...]

Friday, November 7, 2008

Inspiration:  “A father’s words are like a thermostat that set the temperature in the house.” Paul Lewis
Be: (positive confession) I Am Climate Controlled.    
Do: (first steps) Today, choose your words and the tone of your voice wisely.  Put yourself in the hearer’s shoes before you speak so that you can properly assess the potential ripple effect of your praise or castigation.  Even when reprimanding remember that respect for the other person is critical to building and maintaining solid relationships.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I control my tongue I will create a warm environment and one conducive to the growth of both individuals and the team as a whole.

Be, Do, and Have the Best Day of your Life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Plateau Buster

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 6 Nov, 2008

Thursday, November 6, 2008
Inspiration:     “If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else it will spread into your work and into your life.  There are no limits, there are only plateaus and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”  Bruce Lee, Actor and Martial Arts Expert
Be: (positive confession) [...]

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Inspiration:     “If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else it will spread into your work and into your life.  There are no limits, there are only plateaus and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.”  Bruce Lee, Actor and Martial Arts Expert

Be: (positive confession) I Am a Plateau Buster

Do: (first steps) Today, realize that there is not always a solid and steady progression to your goals.  In fact, in most cases there is a sharp increase from initial efforts followed by a flat line or plateau.  This is the reason so many people fail to reach there potential, they become disillusioned when their march forward is stalled or beset by challenges and give up before their efforts have the opportunity to compound.  The way to combat this is by honing in on, and continuing to perform, the day to day protocols that lead to success in spite of slow or no forward motion.  

Have: (making dreams reality) As I consistently keep my eye on the correct processes I will build a pressure cooker that will cause me to explode through barriers I that previously kept me down.

Be, Do, and Have the best day of your life!  God Bless You!

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Thought For The Day: Diligent

Posted by Dr. AJ Rubano 5 Nov, 2008

Wednesday, November 5, 2008
Inspiration:     “For the diligent a week has seven days; for the slothful, seven tomorrows.” German Proverb
Be: (positive confession) I Am Diligent. 
Do: (first steps) Today, perform one of the greatest pressure relieving secrets known to man.  Stay on task and complete the day’s objectives.  To do so you will need to honestly identify [...]

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Inspiration:     “For the diligent a week has seven days; for the slothful, seven tomorrows.” German Proverb

Be: (positive confession) I Am Diligent

Do: (first steps) Today, perform one of the greatest pressure relieving secrets known to man.  Stay on task and complete the day’s objectives.  To do so you will need to honestly identify the difference between relevant communication and idle chatter and productive action versus mere busyness.   It will also require you to carry out your duties in a manner that takes into account a prioritized order of importance, allowing you to complete the most crucial items first.

Have: (making dreams reality) As I remain attentive to the key activities of my livelihood and remove those that have the appearance of effort but lack the results thereof I will have more time and energy at my disposal to fulfill my goals and effectively reduce my stress level.

Be, Do, and Have the best day of your life!  God Bless You!

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